Be Gentle With Yourself, We’re in a Pandemic!

Right now, in the midst of a global pandemic, it’s important to give yourself a lot of kindness and grace as I am seeing a lot of food issues coming up for people during this time. It’s okay if you are not eating “perfectly” (no such thing) or not engaging in ALL the healthful behaviors. It’s okay if you are doing the best you can and taking care of yourself in ways that feel good for you right now.

In a time of uncertainty, try to focus on the things you CAN control such as your actions, mindset, and effort. Health is so much more complicated than simply what we eat or don’t eat. As a health and wellness coach, I practice from the approach that all foods fit. There are no “good” or “bad” foods and the emotions, stress, and guilt we feel related to food rules cause more damage than the so called “bad” foods do!

It’s important to take into consideration all aspects of health including physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, relational, self-care, stress, work, play, sleep, etc. When trying to make any new behavioral changes, I recommend first assessing where you are currently. Assess your current habits and identify ONE area where you could make a positive change in the next week.

I also like to focus on what can we add in versus what “should” we take away — it’s the abundance mindset! This could be adding a serving of fruits or vegetables to your day, aiming to get more protein or healthy fats, planning a little better to have meals and snacks ready to go before you get “hangry”, moving your body in a way that feels good and gives you energy. There are again lots of areas to assess, and rather than feeling overwhelmed trying to make a lot of changes at once, pick one thing and start there. Small changes really can add up to big results.

Most importantly, bodies change and that is OKAY. Weight is NOT an indicator of health or disease-risk (regardless of what society tells you) and focusing on taking care of yourself and the body you are in now (not the one you used to be in or the one you hope to be in in the future) is the most important thing you can do right now. Being stressed out about weight gain is more dangerous to your health than the weight gain itself. Take a minute to reconnect with your body. Treat your body with respect. Do things that you enjoy and feel good for you. Everyone is different and it’s okay if you are not thriving during a global pandemic. Survival is the name of the game!

If you’re a current Ivy Tech student or employee and wish to schedule a health coaching session, e-mail alutzel@ivytech.edu.

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