If you’re someone who has struggled with yo-yo dieting and/or emotional eating, then keep on reading.
There is so much information out there on different diets that a person can get OVERWHELMED. I just want to keep it simple and give it to you straight.
First, I’m here to tell you, please stop with the dieting mentality. Instead, you should focus more on just being healthy—having a healthy mindset, getting the proper nutrition, exercise, and practicing self-care—which includes loving yourself from the inside out. Yes, that’s right! Love your body and everything about it no matter what and everything else will fall into place. That’s the best part about this whole method as you will be treating yourself well and doing things to take care of YOU first. After all, you can’t pour from an empty cup.
Diets involve restrictions. And, while some people may have success with that it’s not ideal for everyone. Restrictive diets can cause more harm than good for many people. If you restrict something from your diet, in time, it can become increasingly difficult to avoid something particularly during a stressful time of your life. This is where good coping tools come into play. (See previous blog post on stress.)
There are many of us out there who tend to want to eat more, or perhaps we crave unhealthy food when we’re stressed or upset about something (particularly if we’ve been restricting unhealthy food from our diet). Sometimes, it’s just easier to grab junk food. I get that. But, similar to limiting our time with toxic people because it’s unhealthy for us, we should also limit our unhealthy food intake. Everything in moderation.
One thing to keep in mind is that when you do indulge and eat something unhealthy is that you DO NOT feel guilty about it. You do it and move on. Feeling guilty will only intensify things and make you want to keep eating poorly. You’ll start falling into that all or nothing or “I might as well give up” mentality. Nope! You can’t allow that to happen. Just pick up and make your next meal or snack a healthy one.
If you struggle with not knowing what foods are the healthiest and provide you with the most nutrition, then follow @ivytechwellandfit on Facebook and Instagram to get ideas. Or, if you’re an Ivy Tech Evansville student or employee, you can make a health coaching appointment with me to guide you through the process of living a healthier lifestyle and have someone to hold you accountable (which many of us need sometimes.)
If your struggles go way deeper than that and you deal with a lot of pent of anger or depression, then perhaps you should consider seeing a counselor or therapist to help you process everything and get to the root of your problem. Once you do this, then you can learn good coping tools to help you. Until you discover the underlying cause of why you’re not having success in certain aspects of your life, then you’re constantly setting yourself up for failure. Awareness and acceptance are keys to moving forward and having long-term success.
Some of this information may seem overwhelming especially if you’re not ready to make a change in your life. You will know when the time is right and when you’re ready to take better care of YOU. No one can do it for you. It all has to come from within. YOU hold the key!
Doesn’t being happy and healthy in body, mind, and spirit sound wonderful? Wouldn’t it be great to lose the scale and not obsess about your weight every day? Well, it is possible for you, believe it or not. Feel free to comment or ask me any questions on this blog if you’re stuck and needing help on where to go next. I am very passionate about what I do, and as a Health and Wellness Coach, I can say that feeling empowered and making decisions for yourself is a step in the right direction. I have faith in you!
You may also contact me with questions via e-mail at alutzel@ivytech.edu. For more information about the programs we offer at the Ivy Tech Wellness Center, visit our web page at https://www.ivytech.edu/evansville/6630.html.
